Re: ~! Advice on friends.
Salam,
Tell me something...Are you wrong if you stay "away" from the wrong crowd? or a crowd u're not comfortable with?
No.
Now lets say that crowd was your group of friends..
Now assume that you guys were always together, halla gulla, yeh woh...then, you and your friends ended up on 2 different extremes...
your views, and perspective on life change....
It's natural, in fact, its desirable to change and mature as you grow older..
And say now you still love your friends...but cannot be the same way you were with them before.
You tried explaining to them, but they could not understand. You tried showing to them, but they did not understand.
So you did what you could do in a situation like this...you avoided them.
Then they stopped calling you, and you stopped calling them...
But I mean you still have this "friend" feeling inside of you...but you don't want to be around them..
**It's understandable.
When i was in high school, i had only one friend. We were close, shared everything, even same outlook on life. I was having lots of problems wiht my parents and i shared all my pareshaaniyan wiht her..As i was getting into college, i started being more appreciative of my culture and religion,a nd most of all my parents..She didnt' understand my wanting to get married, and all that..I barely talk to her anymore..i dunno i feel bad, coz we shared so much together..we're on gud terms, but i just feel we dont have too much in common.. **
confusing I know...
Nah it's nto confusing..its a part of life i think..we change and therefore friends may change as well..it might hurt the initial stages but i think time heals that..
Are you wrong to avoid them? What should one do in this situation.