advice needed

[Sara516]

Re: advice needed

@cpa2011

Ive seen women who are all career at my job. They are directors and heavy managers, some even partners. They are very successful/smart/ well paid and they are always sad when they see other women pregnant, and realize they’re over the age to really start a family. Some have even told me themselves that its late for them to start and it sucks but what can they do.

I used to think yea career is everything. but it really isnt, theres going to be a point where your gonna go home and be by urself. I would rather have both a job and family. but if i have to choose, i would chose family over job.

No I agree career is not everything, but it sure as hell trumps being in an unhappy relationship with someone.

First you said that he sucks, and that he doesn’t care about your career, but then you said he does value you?

Are you sure it’s because he really values YOU or because “eh might as well?” Same for you, do you really like him, value him or is it because your clock is ticking?