pak-one...too many issues are complicating this. she may be a nice girl and you click on that level but think about how your requirements (your own, your parents and other social requirements) will need some changes for her to fit in. can you really ask her to change certain aspects? will she do this? and will she resent some time in the future? or are you willing to compromise on your principles? best to leave it in a nice/amicable way...keep away if you are not able to present her to your family without complications.
Yes thats just it. I mean I can't even think about all of these issues based a drunken girls confession. I'll let you guys know how it goes tomorrow.
Besides, I just realized that even if I was ok with everything and wanted to pursue this I would be wrecking things with her BF - a guy who I met and seems like a decent fellow - Islamically or not, that would be so wrong.