Advice Needed Regarding Marriage

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@Ambassador1

I havent read all the posts here but I really do not understand this thing with Pakistani girls & boys… They claim to be mature but still want to remain a little baby at 20+ & want their parents to find them THEIR future life partner.

IMO, humans are usually mature enough after 18 to be able to find a suitable life partner for themselves. Why dont you act slightly responsible & also try to find yourself a suitable match & do not let mama-papa sppon feed you even that? I mean it is one thing asking their opinion in something you wish to do or about someone you wish to marry but it is another to completely remain in the cradle with a milk bottle in your hands & let them carry a life partner to you there too.

I mean, they brought you up, got you good education, took care of all your needs till 22, is that not enough? I am sure Pakistani parents trust their children to have finally matured & grown after all those years of growing up to atleast find a life partner by themselves, dont you think? Be responsible please!

Little too strong eh?

It all depends on a person’s choice if the person wants to involve family in decision like this or not.

Finding a mate yourself or through family’s blessings. In comparison none can be considered perfect and flawless.

So why advice something which has not been proven perfect, or even better than other?