Re: Advice Needed on How To Handle Argument
We argued about how our two year old wasn’t in any kind of routine. She IS in a routine but not in a routine he thinks is suitable for her. However seeing as how I an home with our toddler every day and he isn’t the routine works for us. Plus everyone comes home at 7pm in the evening and this is why she goes to sleep at 8pm. I used to put her to bed at 7pm but then my in laws and my husband complained that they didn’t get enough time with her so her bedtime was changed to suit the needs of the family. Also he decided with my FIL and MIL that our toddler should start nursery because it will help her get into a routine better and that she can be educated in a better way than what I can do with her. Whether our child starts nursery or not and when should be a decision made by both of us. I am our child’s mother, I know what’s best for her because I am with her 24/7. But he said he didn’t think he was wrong and this is what’s happening. Straight after he told me he wants me to make more independent decisions. Which makes no sense because the decisions I make are mainly based around our children. And whatever decision is needed to be made concerning nursery or school or anything like that should be a joint decision between us. My argument on why she is too young for nursery and how it isn’t necessary was ignored. I take her out to the park, we go to playgroups, I take her to mum and baby classes. Where is the need for an early nursery start when I provide this for her already?