Re: Advice Needed on How To Handle Argument
I think you’ll make it through and get what you want, but the hard way, you’ll show commitment by not doing the micro things he likes, but major things, that trigger those micro things.
The relationship between you two is of a husband and wife, not that of an employee-employer (on either side), unconditional commitment is hard to nurture, specifically when, we receive less grooming from our parents for that unconditional commitment.
You need that Faith-God ingredient as well, as everyone does.
Both of you are having “that time” which is not uncommon in marriages, and often kicks in more than once.
On average, a total of your married life years sum up to 40 years, it should not be hard, if you can ace throught the earlier ones.
Routine creates stability, somebody mention children/child going to school, totally agree to that.
Some of the advices given by people, can have really devastating effect within no time. I usually like/agree to the advice given by Reha and Tempest. Very very mature, world realistic, culture driven pieces of advice from them always. In this case, I’m going to agree with Reha again.
You can be all ears here, but it’s you who will make things right. - Inshah-Allah