Re: Advice Needed on How To Handle Argument
Why is he not clearing the dishes or the bin… He sounds like a micromanager who wants to get thinks done his way and not actually do the dirty work himself. He is also belittling all the decisions just because they are not his. All that talk about you making your own decisions is BS. He’s looking at you as a little girl who needs guidance and hand holding because from his perspective all of your decisions are dumb. He wants you to outgrow that silly habit and act like a mature person by agreeing to his every decision. This is classic anal behaviour pretty much in every textbook and honestly a time will come when you’ll be breathing wrong. You need to find a way to say jee huzoor without actually bowing to his every whim because he’s going to get critical critical and will question every single decision.
ps: I’m not even kidding about the textbook part. Any person who has opened a psychology book can recognise this behaviour instantly.
THIS. I feel sorry for anyone married to this type of anal retentive person. The minute I find out a guy is super neat and detail oriented and needs things done a certain way or his mind explodes, I hightail it.
One of the 100 reasons why you should talk to a guy and really get to know him before marrying him.