Hmm..I understand. Personally, I’m not in favour of early start of education for kids under 3. The effects of staying away from mother for even few hours may harm such a young child…it’s proven by child psychologists. Your husband needs to understand this. But obviously, he’s being unreasonable. You have the most right over your kids and it should be you finalizing the decision.
If I were you I’d do everything to let my husband and inlaws know that they can’t take away my rights as a mother…