Advice Needed on How To Handle Argument

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Re: Advice Needed on How To Handle Argument

@KhaZa1216

I told him she wasn’t going and there was no need for it until she’s at least three. He said the decision was made, she IS going, she’s starting in September and he has an application form for a nursery near where my FIL works. He’s spoken to the nursery manager and wants her doing four sessions every morning. They last five hours, from 7:30am to 12:30pm. Its like the three of them against me. He said I hadn’t given a valid argument for her to NOT start nursery. And he thinks she needs it and its in toddlers best interests. And this is a decision which comes under the stress category he was talking about. He wants me toake decisions but then does it himself anyways??? And how am I supposed to drop her off at 7:30am with a newborn baby? He feeds every two hours right now, what if its time for a feed? I just leave him to get toddler ready at 6am? Then take them both to drop toddler off at nursery?

Look, if waking up early to take her to the nursery is the only reason you don’t want her to join the nursery then it’s not a good reason.