Advice Needed on How To Handle Argument

[KhaZa1216]

Re: Advice Needed on How To Handle Argument

@StrangeOne

Why is he not clearing the dishes or the bin… He sounds like a micromanager who wants to get thinks done his way and not actually do the dirty work himself. He is also belittling all the decisions just because they are not his. All that talk about you making your own decisions is BS. He’s looking at you as a little girl who needs guidance and hand holding because from his perspective all of your decisions are dumb. He wants you to outgrow that silly habit and act like a mature person by agreeing to his every decision. This is classic anal behaviour pretty much in every textbook and honestly a time will come when you’ll be breathing wrong. You need to find a way to say jee huzoor without actually bowing to his every whim because he’s going to get critical critical and will question every single decision.

ps: I’m not even kidding about the textbook part. Any person who has opened a psychology book can recognise this behaviour instantly.

But he wasn’t like this before. Its just been in the past two months that he’s changed like this. We’ve never argued like this before, this was all out of the blue,no warning nothing. I had no idea he felt like this. I don’t understand why he’s changed. We’ve been married three years. I thought our relationship was good. I thought he understood me and we had good communication. I’m not sure where its gone wrong.