Advice needed, for an anonymous user

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Re: Advice needed, for an anonymous user

@redvelvet

I**s this “friend” and your ex…the same person? If you go read your post…you’ll find that it’s worded in a confusing way. **Anyhow…look at the words in your message that I’ve bolded in red. If you’ve already made up your mind that you can’t let go of this “friend” that you really don’t have an obligation toward…then what’s the point of even seeking advice or getting married? You’ve already decided that you’re hell-bent on not letting certain things go..

I am wondering the same,and assuming its the same person.
I am not sure what makes your mind and heart drift when you say that you have been in a loving relationship with a man and you guys are compatible.The situation like you tell us,very clearly means that the ex has no feelings for you.You need to ask yourself why you still want him to know of your feelings when you say you are in ‘love’ with the one you are engaged to,because once you are in love,you do not have doubts.I wish you the best of luck,and really hope you do not lose a good friend and the man you love in this .