Advice me on his side / my side family issue.

[Paheli00]

Re: Advice me on his side / my side family issue.

@parisbynight

i was talking about 4 weekends VS 4 weekends.

i do not think i am being childlish as we are either going to spend 4 weeknds weekends with his aunt or with mine.

thus my worry of upsetting my sibbling who are not kids but 27+

And I am talking about spilling the weekends between your family and the aunt. It’s selfish and childish for ANYONE in this situation to expect to spend all 4 weekends with you guys (whether its your family or the aunt).

A bit of common sense and maturity will go a long way here. Yes, your husband can refuse to spend all 4 weekends with his aunt and you can refuse to spend all 4 weekends with your family. Talk to him ASAP and let him know that the ONLY fair solution to this dilemma is to split the weekends.