Advice me on his side / my side family issue.

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Re: Advice me on his side / my side family issue.

@Paheli00

1. Everyone (you, your siblings, and your parents) knew that this particular aunt also lives in London.
2. You (and I assume maybe your family too?) knew that your husband has a very positive relationship with this aunt which leads to a STRONG possibility that he may want to visit with her during this trip.
3. If a FIVE week trip. Before your siblings went ahead and make plans for all 4 weekends with the expectation that you AND your husband will follow their plans…they should have confirmed with you (and you with your husband) that it would be ok.

Anyway…good luck and have fun on your trip! Remember…you don’t have to like this aunt. Just treat her with respect and don’t make your husband feel like he has to choose a side.

unfortunatly in this case, it is his aunt and uncle who have booked us for places already without asking us. Where as I know about my sibling plans from phone convo. Since they made the bookings, my husband cannot refuse.