Re: Advice i am confused - relationship
Tell him calmly that you are 27 and in Desi culture it becomes harder for a girl to get married the older that she gets…(and that’s a sad reality). Tell him that one of your future goals is to get married and have a family…and that you have become attached to him…but if he knows deep down in his heart that marriage with you will not be possible at all…then it’s better to end things now so that both of us can move on in our lives a little less painfully.
The only thing that bothers me is that if he knew with 100% certainty that marriage to you is something that he won’t even make an effort for, he should never have gotten intimate with you. He should have stayed away from the very beginning.
I am not talking about making excuses to meet you or hang out with you. I’m talking about excuses about marrying you.