Anas reported God’s messenger as saying, “When a woman observes the five times of prayer, fasts during Ramadan, preserves her chastity and obeys her husband, she may enter by any of the gates of paradise she wishes (in other words nothing will prevent her from entering paradise).” (Mishkat)
Um Salma reported God’s messenger as saying, “Any woman who dies when her husband is pleased with her will enter Paradise.” (Tirmidhi)
Abu Huraira told that when God’s messenger was asked which woman was best, he replied,
“The one who fills (her husband) with joy when he sees her, obeys him when he directs and does not oppose him by displeasing him regarding her person or property.” (Mishkat)
Simple pointers that can be remembered include:
1.Make your home his heaven by Establishing good home habits (rest and food)
2.Decorate your home with simplicity…simplify life complexity
3.Be his awakened conscious, not his reproaching angel
4.Learn motherhood before being a mother
5.Understand the type of Jihad you are responsible of.
6.Be his professional home secretary, manage his home with his money and raise his children with his
7.Search his competencies and Amplify them whereas overlook his deficiencies and hide them
8.Content your self with what you have
9.Be transparent, no secrets to hide
10.Do not be rough, rude or aggressive, be tender and smooth
11.Volunteer to his servitude
12.Obey with love and habituate yourself to obtain his permission for every action
13.Look always beautiful at home ( kuhl is the least) and smell nice ( water is the least)
14.share with him his objectives and ambitions.
15.He is your heaven or hell watch out
Fulfill your duties before asking for your rights