Re: Advice for newlyweds???
I think you misunderstood what im trying to say.
I don’t mean that he needs to ask you what colour socks to wear every morning nor do i mean that your husband should be financially dependent on you.
I have known couples where the husband goes out and makes big family/household decisions without consulting his wife (i actually know someone that purchased a home without even showing/asking his wife!!) there’s other people that go out and spend money on useless things but when you look at their wives , they have a set “budget” and most - if not all of it goes towards grocery/home needs.
I think that when you are there for your husband (in every sense possible) - he gets used to that and needs that around him. My husband works from home and I do most of his marketing/admin tasks , even when he goes out to purchase something for his business .. he asks for my advice and opinion..(he can easily go out and do what he pleases.. but he doesn’t)
Being this way i feel builds an understanding, builds a sense of respect for both partners.