Advice for my non- GS friend please!

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at least then she can sing that song..."darling tere liye".

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You have to understand, these brothers of hers are very strong willed and take after their dad and basically dictate to her what she can and cannot do. Even when she was getting grief from her ex, her brothers tried to convince her to stay with him. Despite what she'd gone through, even the parents wanted her to make another go of it for the sake of the family name lest it get blemished. You could say they didn't really care about her welfare, they just thought it would be better to brush the issues under the carpet and try and get her to carry on like nothing's happened. It took a lot for her to finally leave him and even now her mum tries to make her feel guilty for depriving the daughters of a dad. They just don't get where she is coming from and I just feel so sorry for her. She's just fearful of what would happen if it all came out into the open. I agree she needs to get her divorce sorted before she can even think about another relationship

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Forget being muslim here, but what about her children? is this guy going to marry her, accept her children?
Whose to say that this "genuine"guy won't go and tell everyone himself and give her a bad name, if/when they break up or things just end. Very few people hide things like this forever, especially if it's juicy gossip and it doesn't harm them in anyway

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no no it's like "darr-r-r-r-r-ling"

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Being married and having an affair isn't going affect them at all?