Advice for getting over my ex?

[Zara196]

Re: Advice for getting over my ex?

@R.A.W

Considering your experience at this young age, don’t know what to say. Unfortunately, you are trying to put medicine in the wrong place, not where the actual wound is, after getting wounded so early in practical life. Many boys want to taste a share of you (as you mentioned), and you need to be careful in reserving/saving yourself for the one who is actually serious about having a long term relationship (leading to marriage) with you (from the beginning). How serious you are in seeking a true life partner (without giving a part of yourself to any boyfriend turned ex) would determine how different advises here would help you.

Because advice is like a chapati that can only be cooked on a pan (person) that is hot (serious) enough to cook (implement) it, otherwise it would be a wasted effort, no matter how many times you try different types of chapattis on a cold pan.

I love your comment and I totally agree. That’s the thing although I’m not majorly Islamic I do know the basic between whats right and wrong. I don’t want to waste time with the wrong guys. I just want a decent guy but it seems like all the decent guys have disappeared. :o I get hounded by guys who simply have a one track mind.