Re: advice: back to work, leaving newborn with babysitter..
You know what I say, that babies are small only once and grow up so quick, I know you must be enjoying your time with her, I really do pity the females who have to go back to work for financial reasons, as there is no other option, my cousin who gave birth to a boy in pakistan is also in the same dilemma, I say go to work only if you cannot survive otherwise, maybe you guys can do some financial adjustments, like pay the loan later or cut back on unnecessary things, so that you can stay home atleast for one year, then find a good carecenter for your kid, u will be much more in ease that u know u spend the first year with your baby. the first year is the most important as the bonding is growing between the baby and the mom!