Re: Adoption...(split thread)
my bff and her husband had resolved on one try with fertility before adoption. fortunately, their one shot at fertility worked and mA they are now expecting. but this pregnancy has been extremely difficult for her thus far and so i highly doubt their future children will be biological. both of them are very keen on adoption and since they are both indian, will most likely adopt from india. partly to avoid the dearth of paperwork here but also so they can bring home a little baby from a similar background.
like mama said, both options have their fair share of emotions and hard work involved. i guess you try for a biological child until you can't, and then you look into adoption.