Adjusting in marital life .....

[sweet_iez55]

Re: Adjusting in marital life …

@DaffyDuck

How did you to adjust to changes after marriage and how long did it take you? changes like e.g.

• You have to cook yourself
• you have to wake up early to give breakfast to husband or parents-in-law
• you have to maintain the house i.e. laundry, dish washing etc
• If you are changing the country, how did you adjust to the new place and how long did it take you
• If you used to work before marriage, how did you adjust to the fact that you wouldnt be working after marriage if you were a career oriented sort of woman
• There is some one you will have to take permission from
• There is some one who has the right to say No to what you want some times
• If you previously lived in pakistan, a large part of the work was done by maids, how did you adjust to the change that you will have to do everything yourself
• You are the responsible person, now you cant leave things on your parents or siblings, you have to do them

Daffy,
ur post sent me to the depressing state :S

i want to work/study after marriage
i dont wanna be the one on whome the inlwas imposes their orders
i want my freedom as it is now wen living with my folks
i want a social life, not being housewife treated like maids… :S

is there any way to scape… ?

i think as far as changing the location is concerned, its a lot more easier if u are just moving with ur hubby, no matter one have to take the responsibility of home and household chores, but at least they are lucky living alone w/out in-laws