I have this friend who is miserable cuz her crush got engaged to some other girl and my friend didnt even know the guy or interacted with him but she still has not been able to handle it maturely.
Anyways, so that makes me think what happens when its actually two sided love and yet somehow it doesnt workout in a marriage and 1 of them gets married to somebody else, how does it feel? How are they ever able to come in terms with it?
I believe its very different to hear all this and judge but when it happens with you or somebody close its all together a different thing. I have just experienced it myself recently and now i wonder what a horrible thing it must be to deal with.
If u still know the person after the break up, seeing ur ex married to some other person might hurt. But in order to save you from any bad feelings, always have a big fight before the break up so that it does not hurt in the future (well thats a dumb advice I know :D)
I have read it somewhere:
I never get jealous when i see my ex with someone else because my parents always taught me to give my used toys to the less fortunate :D
I have read it somewhere:
I never get jealous when i see my ex with someone else because my parents always taught me to give my **used toys *to the *less fortunate :D
I have read it somewhere:
I never get jealous when i see my ex with someone else because my parents always taught me to give my used toys to the less fortunate :D
I have this friend who is miserable cuz her crush got engaged to some other girl and my friend didnt even know the guy or interacted with him but she still has not been able to handle it maturely.
Anyways, so that makes me think what happens when its actually two sided love and yet somehow it doesnt workout in a marriage and 1 of them gets married to somebody else, how does it feel? How are they ever able to come in terms with it?
I believe its very different to hear all this and judge but when it happens with you or somebody close its all together a different thing. I have just experienced it myself recently and now i wonder what a horrible thing it must be to deal with.
Things end, you move on.
been there, done that, moved on.
whats not meant to be is not meant to be was not meant to be and you cant live your life looking at a rear view mirror and thinking coulda woulda shoulda, not fair to you, and not to those around you.
I would however advise strongly that u do not go for someone else until you err your friend has resolved the deal in their minds.
I would however advise strongly that u do not go for someone else until you err your friend has resolved the deal in their minds.
Lol. You guys are so funny. Why would I not just say if i have a crush on someone or if its me whose two sided love didnt work?! I am a normal girl (thank-you) and i have had my share of crushes and there is absolutely nothing to be embarass about. So please shun that attitude like seriously! You guys dont leave any chance of acting the typical "desi", which you all are otherwise always complaining about :D.
Lol. You guys are so funny. Why would I not just say if i have a crush on someone or if its me whose two sided love didnt work?! I am a normal girl (thank-you) and i have had my share of crushes and there is absolutely nothing to be embarass about. So please shun that attitude like seriously! You guys dont leave any chance of acting the typical "desi", which you all are otherwise always complaining about :D.
1- did I say you are not a normal girl..
2- did I say you had anything to be embarrass (or embarrassed) about
3- I am not sure which attitude to shun, seriously or otherwise
regardless..I was using the term 'you' as is commonly used in the place of 'one' and when i got to the individual making the choice I realized that saying 'you' would look like it was you so I explained that your friend should not make that move.
Well i have read your posts and appreciate your views/thoughts say so i will give you the benefit of doubt here obv nt that u care but oh well :p. But this is the attitude of most people out here, if you talk about something they assume it must be about you. Ok lets just say it is about me but im nt comfortable saying so, big deal? let me live yar. Next i know i will be accused of wanting a divorce (without even being married :halo: )since that’s another topic i discussed just today. Oopsie! :D. Haha.
lol.