acts of kindess.. or is it?

in the past 2 weeks, ive been touched by some peoples gestures.

I mean, i wasnt dying or anything, but the support and kindess close friends and family have shown since the opertion has been lovely (counting people on here)

however, some things have puzzled me (more like confused me)

i had a colleague visit me, who i chose not to inform as i didnt want to.. but the individual got all the details (stuff i didnt want others to know) from a friend and came to see me..

i am greatful, dont get me wrong, but shouldnt i be a lil confused if the person never acknowledges me at work and hasnt since i got back this week.. but shows up to see me?

but.. neways thanks to everyone.. and to the colleague who came.. even though i found it odd and sort of an invasion of privacy but aah well.. :flower2:

ppl r strange init :p

^ i know i am :) but i was a tad bit confused

dont really need to be confused… mayb that person likes you all along… they didnt show it and act all different in front of you but then, when a person is sick .. he is in his weakest condition .. and its nice when sumone visits anyway.. it shows they care about u… :slight_smile::flower1:

^ yeah true... b/w its a she :)

I know our parents always tell us that you should always visit the sick if you hear about them not feeling well. Maybe that person was taught the same by his/her family. I know this one girl had an accident and eventhough people did not know her at all and heard from someone else about her, they went to the hospital to pay their respect.

No need to be surprised :)

^ we get told to visit sick people cus we get sawab for it :)

yeah i totally get ur point.. i would do the same as well.. except if someone really didnt want me to know and said they didnt want visitors.. then i dunno

khair, it was a nice gesture indeed

ha ha i m sorry … i didnt mean to make it sound like its a he… i apologize again :flower1:

haha na its all good.. if it was a he would i be complaining? haha just kidding