actress jiah khan commits sucide

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Jiah khans suicide note

“ I don’t know how to say this to you but I might as well now as I have nothing to lose. I’ve already lost everything. If you’re reading this I might have already left or about to leave. I am broken inside. You may not have known this but you affected me deeply to a point where I lost myself in loving you. Yet you tortured me everyday. These days I see no light I wake up not wanting to wake up. There was a time I saw my life with you, a future with you. But you shattered my dreams. I feel dead inside. I’ve never given so much of myself to someone or cared so much. You returned my love with cheating and lies. It didn’t matter how many gifts I gave you or how beautiful I looked for you. I was scared of getting pregnant but I gave myself completely the pain you have caused me everyday has destroyed every bit of me, destroyed my soul. I can’t eat or sleep or think or function. I am running away from everything. The career is not even worth it anymore. When I first met you I was driven, ambitious and disciplined. Then I fell for you, a love I thought would bring out the best in me. I don’t know why destiny brought us together. After all the pain, the rape, the abuse, the torture I have seen previously I didn’t deserve this. I didn’t see any love or commitment from you. I just became increasingly scared that you would hurt me mentally or physically. Your life was about partying and women. Mine was you and my work. If I stay here I will crave you and miss you. So I am kissing my 10-year career and dreams goodbye. I never told you but I received a message about you. About you cheating on me. I chose to ignore it, decided to trust you. You embarrassed me. I never went out, I never went with anyone else. I am a loyal person. I never met anyone with Karthik I just wanted you to feel how you make me feel constantly. No other woman will give you as much as I did or love you as much as I did. I can write that in my blood. Things were looking up for me here, but is it worth it when you constantly feel the pain of heartbreak when the person you love wants to abuse you or threatens o hit you or cheats on you telling other girls they are beautiful or throws you out of their house when you have no where to go and you’ve come to them out of love or when they lie to your face or they make you chase after them in their car. Or disrespects their family. You never even met my sister. I bought your sister presents. You tore my soul. I have no reason to breathe anymore. All I wanted was love. I did everything for you. I was working for us. But you were never my partner. My future is destroyed my happiness snatched away from me. I always wished the best for you, was ready to invest what little money I had in your betterment. You never appreciated my love, Kicked me in the face. I have no confidence or self esteem left, whatever talent whatever ambition you took it all away. You destroyed my life. It hurt me so much that I waited for you for ten days and you didn’t bother buying me something. The Goa trip was my birthday present but even after you cheated I still spent on you. I aborted our baby when it hurt me deeply. You destroyed my Christmas and my birthday dinner when I came back. When I tried my hardest to make your birthday special. You chose to be away from me on Valentines Day. You promised me once we made it to one year we would get engaged. All you want in life is partying, your women and your selfish motives. All I wanted was you and my happiness you took both away from me. I spent money on you selflessly you would throw in my face. When I would cry for you. I have nothing left in this world to live for after this. I wish you had loved me like I loved you. I dreamt of our future. I dreamt f our success. I leave this place with nothing but broken dreams and empty promises. All I want now is to go to sleep and never wake up again. I am nothing. I had everything. I felt so alone even while with you. You made me feel alone and vulnerable. I am so much more than this”

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source: Jiah Khan’s letter made public by her mother Rabia Khan | F.i.g.h.t C.l.u.b

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^:( wish her mom had not made it public....

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Why give any one person so much power over your life?
Why not focus on the good? Her parents, her sisters and her career?

Its really sad.

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I feel for her mom. She's helpless!
I actually understand why she made it public. People were blaming it on her career, that she wasn't getting any film deals.
Suraj Pancholi is a scumbag! He beat her, cheated on her, made her abort their child! OMG poor girl.

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The really, really sad part is that she knew the truth....

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I am so much more than this
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​n she committed suicide anyway :naak:

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I wonder, jab wo itna bura tha to uske peechay kyun pari rahi… :smack: Ok Ok I know, love hojata hay kiya nahin jata etc etc, but still I would call it an immature step… step of suicide… Wese hi haram hay ooper say aisay insaan k liye jo kisi taur se deserve hi nahin karta tha… tb to aur hi bewaqoofi hay… I don’t know for what Suraj Pancholi is being arrested? why? I mean I am not calling this guy an innocent but still, hanging herself was Jiah’s choice…she should have kicked him and moved on… only that could be a better slap to him!!

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^He deserves to be arrested...coz he beat her, and there mentioning of rape...I am assuming he did that....so he deserves what ever is coming his way...wish Jiah had not taken her life for some scumbag like him...but I do understand her...but I still wish she had been stronger...

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This op ed written by Mahesh Murthy keeps making the rounds of social media and then getting deleted, but I’m not sorry to say that I whole heartedly agree with him. The point is not wether Suraj was an abusive boyfriend or not…Jiah Khan CHOSE to take her own life. It’s as simple as that. She was obviously a troubled girl to begin with and it’s sad that she didn’t get the help the she so desperately needed. But to arrest Suraj on some arbitrary charge of “abetting suicide”?!? That’s utterly ridiculous. How can somebody, no matter how shady they are, be responsible for a decision another makes? She had family and friends to turn to. They could have taken her far, far away from the nasty underbelly that is the dark side of Bollywood. They should have gotten that poor girl the help she desperately needed. I also read somewhere that Jiah was molested/abused…that poor girl clearly wasn’t equipped to handle the trauma, but that still doesn’t put the blame on Suraj’s shoulders.

http://www.bollywoodhungama.com/celebrities/features/type/view/id/5114

The recent suicide of Jiah Khan certainly sent shockwaves through the industry. While the media has been buzzing with activity post the revelation of a six page letter that Jiah wrote, some have condemned Sooraj Panscholi to his fate. However there are a few others who think differently. Bollywood Hungama came across this frank letter written by Mahesh Murthy, a marketer and investor, and founder of digital brand management firm Pinstorm and leading venture capitalist firm Seedfund expresses similar views.

"So this note is likely to piss off many of you, but still. Can someone tell me why exactly Jiah Khan’s ex-boyfriend is being blamed for her suicide?

So it’s the usual story. Boy meets girl, they fall in love, they are happy, then they break up. Then he sees someone else.

At which point over-wrought girl decides her life isn’t worth living. Seriously - this is a 25-year old who co-starred with Aamir Khan in a hit film and then later thinks her life is value-less without the continuing attention of some unemployed star-kid?! How the heck was she brought up? What kind of foolish adult mind thinks that someone else’s attention is so important that her own life pales in comparison? How dare her parents blame her ex for this ridiculous state of mind? Who gave her these values where “death before losing in love” is a virtue?

So she writes a letter saying she had an abortion when she got pregnant, presumably by him - again, no one told her about contraception? And even if they decided to forswear protection - it’s his fault she got pregnant? Wasn’t she equally part of it?

So yes, she had an abortion, she set her mind to have him, but he moved on after they mutually broke up - but she wanted him back, and he said no, so she took her life?

Of course we mourn for her.

But why would we - and the police - blame the idiot star kid who was her ex-boyfriend? I hear it’s on the charge of abetting suicide. Really? You mean if two people are together, and one wants to marry the other, and the other refuses, and then the first one commits suicide, then the other has abetted it? What rot.

So now after seeing this news play out, we have a nation of unstable 25-year olds going around forcing their partners into matrimony at the gunpoint of “do it or I’ll commit suicide and you’ll go to jail like Aditya Pancholi’s son”?

What about it being the other way around? Perhaps more like blackmail - “Marry me, or I’ll commit suicide?” And would that not be equally valid a crime?

So what’s a guy to do if he doesn’t want to marry a girl? Or vice versa actually. Report to the cops when he’s been proposed to? Take anticipatory bail before he says “No, I don’t want to marry you”? Call the counselling lines so they make outbound calls to the partner in advance of him saying no? Or in this case, even involve a bigger star, Salman Khan, who oversees their apparently amicable separation? And even then go to jail after all these precautionary measures?

Look, there’s no escaping the fact that a life lost is a terrible, terrible thing. But blaming the ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend for one’s lack of motivation to live when a relationship breaks is not the other’s fault. It’s your own.

No one grows up with a right to be loved. It’s a privilege you earn for yourself. It doesn’t come naturally. You earn it. And very often, love comes. And love goes. And love comes back. And goes again. And so on.

And, yes, sorry to break it to you but there is no one-man-one-woman-walking-into-the-sunset-together-forever Mills & Boon bull**** that happens either. If your parents or your convent schools or some M&B you read or a chick flick or a YashRaj or KJo film told you that it is the way and it will happen to you - please understand that those are pretty unreliable sources. For starters, it didn’t happen to the authors of such propaganda: the nuns and KJo are still single. The apparent importance of marriage is just propaganda - and you’re better off not depending on it. If it happens, cool. And if it doesn’t, that should be cool too.

Perhaps the best thing we can do as individuals and parents is tell the kids around that marriage isn’t the ultimate goal. It isn’t even an intermediate goal. Or even a tiny goal. Screw the TBZ ads and the whitening cream commercials. Ignore Chetan Bhagat and Shaadi.com. Marriage is downright unimportant in the overall course of things.

In India, you don’t need to be married to have a child legally. Or even to inherit and pass on property. Marriage is just a social custom where a bunch of old people shower rice on your head and believe they’re giving you their permission (or direction, in some cases) to sleep with someone. As you can imagine, it has little or no legal necessity or significance.

What is important is planning to live a full life for yourself, and working to make all your dreams come true - regardless of whether you have a partner with you for the course.

Sure, it’s more fun when you have a lover around. But not having one around isn’t a show-stopper. Life is compulsory. Marriage is an optional extra. Let’s tell the kids that.

Oh, and while we’re at it, can we please stop blaming that poor Pancholi kid for Jiah Khan’s suicide? Let’s stop the witch hunt. Get him out of jail.

And let’s stop glorifying suicide in the name of unrequited love."

Disclaimer: The above mentioned views are those of the writer. Any resemblance to person(s) /subject(s) is not done to defame, hurt or tarnish the image of the person(s) / subject(s). The article does not in any way represent the view(s) of Bollywood Hungama.

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i heard that the letter written by Jia was meant for Zarina Wahab's son...i dunno his name...!!!

Zarina Wahab was a Bollywood star in the 70's and she still is seen in Indian dramas.

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I don't think the boy should be arrested for her suicide...that was HER choice...but if he was the one that beat her, raped her...then yes..otherwise the responsible ppl for it should be arrested...not for the suicide or the abortion......

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may be he taunted her to commit suicide if she was fed-up with him...

...dhokebaaz ko ulTaa Taang kar koRe maarne chaahiyeN. :)

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His name is Suraj Pancholi, that's who we've all been talking about..the son of Zarina Wahab & Aditya Pancholi..they also have a daughter names Sana who is older.

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actress jiah khan commits sucide

Unfortunately, there is no concrete proof that Suraj raped Jiah Khan. Her letters only refer to "the rape" and abuse, It doesn't allude to a time frame, place or person, so it's circumstantial evidence at best.

It's so sad that this young girl went through so much pain and suffering. But will this witch hunt do anything to bring peace to her soul? I really question her mother's motives in releasing such sensitive material to the media.

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yea..I don't agree with her mom releasing it....

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oh thank you for the info...aditya pancholi was a flop himself so i can imagine how he raised his son...garbage!

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If Jiah Khan was western enough to have an pre-marriage live-in relationship, pre-martial s-x, knew that the guy was a womanizer.....then she should be capable of dumping the guy and forget about him.

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To zinda rehke uska jeena haram kerti na… Mentioning of rape… but kahin nahin likha ke wo Soraj ne kiya and secondly… if he is the one who raped her, then I don’t think I girl would love such a guy and not only getting involved deeply but also took her life for such a ******d?? I don’t get it!!

Totally agree with Khatti’s first paragraph! :k:

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mother’s uncut interview…