.. leaving ur 1 yr old child with ur mother while u live saath samundar paar
i know a lot of people have condemned the act, but is it that bad? seeing your mother lose her husband in a tragic shooting… if your child can be the healer of wounds, can help ur mother start a new life, wouldnt u do it too?
why not bringing your mom back with you overseas ?????
why leaving a child with her ????
Assuming that ur mum is around 50+ at that time , i think it will not be easy for her to take care of 1 yr old.
the mother is under 50 :) and shes looked after the baby daughter for a year now
its hard for someone to pack everything and leave.. ur husbands grave is there, tying up all the loose ends.. not an easy job to do...
p.s the daughter is back now though
new start is always hard and it means leaving the old things behind.
under 50 is still vey young
but its good daugter is back
not the best of ideas
the baby needs mother n if mother is alive no one can subtitute the mothers role no matter what!
after all its also the childs rigth to be loved n cared by the mother
on the other hand its true that nani is lonely but things can be worked out, as one of my teacher said, "vaccum does not exist in nature"
if nani is not that old perhaps she can find things to keep herself busy may be by teaching in school
Re: act of unselfishness?
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Originally posted by sadzzz: *
.. leaving ur 1 yr old child with ur mother while u live *saath samundar paar
i know a lot of people have condemned the act, but is it that bad? seeing your mother lose her husband in a tragic shooting... if your child can be the healer of wounds, can help ur mother start a new life, wouldnt u do it too?
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i reckon your baby needs your care the most. though your mother may love your child too, you're its mother.
you also have to take into acocunt that if you're planning to come and take your child overseas with you after a while: a) wouldn't that depress your mother some more after already suffering one loss b) your child will be attached to the grandma and won't have a very close relationship with you!
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*Originally posted by ophiolites: *
not the best of ideas
the baby needs mother n if mother is alive no one can subtitute the mothers role no matter what!
after all its also the childs rigth to be loved n cared by the mother
on the other hand its true that nani is lonely but things can be worked out, as one of my teacher said, "vaccum does not exist in nature"
if nani is not that old perhaps she can find things to keep herself busy may be by teaching in school
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I don't believe mother is the woman who gives birth (yeah yeah, argue with me all u want), but the person who takes care of the young and gives it love. (i wish i could make that a law).
Ditto :k:…