act of noble patience and being considerate

caring families can be so caring, i can only think of their humility and patience over such a big loss and yet they did not say one word.
as my sister’s wedding took place recently in Pakistan, a very good friend of hers and mine were only 4 sisters.
when my sister and parents went to invite them to my sister’s wedding, they were really sweet.
but the older two sisters had gotten married and lived in other cities, third sister was there and the youngest one was not there.
my family gave them the invite, spent some time at their place, and then took leave.

two days before my sister’s wedding, Aunty called, wished well to my sister on her wedding, & then told her that her youngest daughter just passed away, 16, because of kidney failure.
of course my Mom felt so sorry for Aunty & asked her why she did not tell this earlier.
her words: ‘you were so happy over your daughter’s wedding, we did not want to spoil that happy feeling, but we won’t be able to come to the wedding.’

May Allah swt give place in heavens to the little sister-friend. amen.

this is Allah swt’s miracle that such caring people exist on this earth.
they care for feelings of happiness of others over their own sadness.

Any similar humbling, touching & inspiring stories that clearly speak of people’s personal kindered spirit even in the face of such a big loss?

Dushwari

Re: act of noble patience and being considerate

Indeed true. May Allah give such people the ajar they deserve and give us all Hidayah. Ameen!

Re: act of noble patience and being considerate

Such posts do raise moral and spirits of people like me, because such people act as a great inspiration in the present society, who have a strong faith in the will of Allah and the life hereafter.

They don't question Allah's decision, instead they are convinced that there is a greatest wisdom behind every decision of Allah and human mind is too limited to comprehend the reason behind those decisions.

Once a person's son died in teenage in a motor bike accident. My baba told me that when I went to console the father, I saw a man who used these words infront of the father " I am really sorry for your son's untimely death"

This made him very angry, he replied " Never say that again. No decision of Allah is untimely. Whatever happens, it happens at the exact time which Allah has decided for the person"

^ This reply impressed me alot in terms of his belief on the decisions of Allah.