You can open a million threads with different abstract versions of whatever problem you are going through - but you will most likely not get the answer you are seeking.
I now see that I misunderstood your initial query as a legitimate philosophical/spiritual question. It seems to me , unfortunately, that you are grinding your personal axe under the garb of profound philosophy.
thanks, guys.
i do not wish anyone to be in a situation like that.
i was polite
you showed your bluntness.
in any event, best to both of you.
dushwari
Your welcome Dushwari ...
we showed bluntness cos we had no choice cos we dont know what your situation is ..even after requesting we dont know the situation ... like you just said your self ... ''i do not wish anyone to be in a situation like that'' ..well atleast we agreed upon something ..that there is a Situation..
Well may Allah Help you .. we did the best we could ..and may you lead a happy life ...
I will say one more thing...before I leave this place for good.
Tough personal situations often lead people to religion, spirituality and philosophy.
Dushwari, if this is the case with you, I suggest that you use this opportunity to get a fresh perspective towards life - one that will hold you in good stead for a long time to come.....times like this often help you understand what is really important and what is not. Dont waste this opportunity by fretting over things which you possibly don't control.
yar i read dis thread it luks like dushwari have a story behind her title nam ....an i can bet dat coz som tym in lyf fingz bcom da memory of lyf....him/her gotb som dushwari wich she/he wants 2 share but he/she cant...coz he/she don wana trust...ny ways best way of getin along wiv lyf iz 2 let go da fingz an hop 4 best dushwari......may al ur dushwarian bcomz into asanian.....................
i truly appreciate your including faith and Almighty's will in making my path easy for me.
dushwari
Your welcome Dushwari ...
we showed bluntness cos we had no choice cos we dont know what your situation is ..even after requesting we dont know the situation ... like you just said your self ... ''i do not wish anyone to be in a situation like that'' ..well atleast we agreed upon something ..that there is a Situation..
Well may Allah Help you .. we did the best we could ..and may you lead a happy life ...
a life lie is what you make of it.
a loss is met when there is no loss, but then a bigger loss comes in the form of not recognizing that there is no loss from before.
but the loss is that the loss is being gained by perceiving that there is a loss.
life is resilient, yes.
yet, wounds of the hearts are not able to heal on their own.
a life lie serves as a buffer to the unknown's knowing quest.
brave and mighty are is the spirit of the person who steps back, pauses, and re thinks, what has happened.
brave and mighty is also that spirit who patiently perseveres,
keeping the balance positive and not lopsided.
but the really tricky thing with a life lie is that it becomes a truth.
and it becomes a truth, when, everyone is able to recognize and embrace the life time chance to make a pact for ensuring positive energy around one self.
the now and the present is the foundation for a future.
it was tomorrow.
it is tomorrow
& it will be still tomorrow.
but, those who can individually or together with like minded people, shape it, for the greater good for everybody, are the ones who can survive the duality of purpose of living a life lie.
to live the life as a shelter from the full impact of the lie, what ever that is or was or will be, and live it to reach out to the transformation of the lie into a truth.
properties and core attributes of truthful what ever it might be, will replace the lie and its properties, and attributes.
either it will lead to something far better if that is accomplished, or it will be for the worse. that risk is there, in all situations in life.
something that can shine fully, over the dark side, is one instance of how lie can be illuminated to see the truth that it is hiding.
happiness is not a lie, but often times, it is reached by finding the way to truth behind it - as to why happiness is so much wanting in the universe generally.
lowering expectations and keeping high hopes is a truthful thing to do.
because neither these expectations, nor these hopes are lies.
they are simply protected on purpose.
so the effort will be worth its while, even more.
living a life lie is in fact living in the hope of that lie becoming the means to truthful whatever it might be, in life.
but, the life lie must be lived truthfully!