Re: Accepting gifts from the in laws during the engagement period
For all you know, CB, your MIL might not have told her son to talk to you about it. Maybe that was his own decision. But taking the point that Sara has made…doesn’t your own mom also complain to you that MIL doesn’t visit your home as often? Perhaps she sounded really annoyed/frustrated when venting to you? Maybe she felt comfortable telling you (her daughter)…but not your MIL herself (at least not in the same frustrated tone). You and your mum can gently encourage your MIL to visit more often. But if she still doesn’t do it…it doesn’t necessarily mean that she hates you (some people are more social than other). If the woman treats you kindly and doesn’t meddle in your relationship b/w you and her son, that’s really what matters most. I know it’s easier said than done…but try to give the benefit of the doubt and pick and choose your battles.