Re: Acceptable presents for a new SIL?
For a 15-year-old? If she already does parda, then I’m sure she has plenty of scarves and will be given more by her own family. If she doesn’t practice parda, then let her mother, your MIL/BIL deal with it. You should not risk making her think that you’re trying to impose parda on her when a getting gift should bring her nothing but happiness. You can’t control the actions of others…but you can control your own.
Since the gift is for the wedding which isn’t anytime soon…why don’t you start getting to know your future SIL a bit? Start communicating with her through phone/e-mail/chatting etc. Get to know her and find out what type of things SHE likes…not things that your brother prefers or things that has to do with marriage…but what type of things the girl would like for herself personally.