Re: Abusive mother
As Donald said, “Don’t do it,” there is nothing more destructive for children then yelling, screaming and put downs. You build your loved ones up, not destroy them..yelling is destroying them, kids of yellers become yellers. I have relationship goals with my wife and kids and I keep those goals insight in all my dealings with them and even though I feel angry sometimes I dont yell as I know by destroying them I wont get to my goal of having nurtured, happy fulfilled happy children. I also want a wife who will love me forever and that is why I have to be nice to her. Love and fear don’t live in the same place.
Monitoring your self talk is crucial in life.