Abusing the Elderly

As many as half a million elderly people may be being abused, a House of Commons report says.

An inquiry found two-thirds of the cases of abuse occur in people’s own homes.

It took the form of sexual, physical and financial abuse, neglect and over-medication, the Commons Health Committee said.

The committee said: “Abuse of older people is a hidden, and often ignored, problem in society.”

As well as occurring in their own homes, abuse also happened in nursing homes, residential care, hospitals and sheltered housing, MPs said.

The elderly did not report much of the abuse because they were frightened, embarrassed or unable to, the report found.

Paul Burstow, a Liberal Democrat member of the Commons Health Committee, said: "The report must act as a wake-up call for a complacent government.

“Elder abuse is still a taboo and is all too often a case of ‘out of sight, out of mind’. It’s high time ministers stopped dithering and took this issue seriously.”

Simon Burns, for the Conservatives, said: “For too long, elderly abuse has been the problem that dare not speak its name.”

Elderly Abused in UK

What is it with western culture they don`t respect the elderly and think it no problem firstly for the children to kick parents out of the home and put them in old peoples homes. Then as if this is not enough they start routinly abusing them.

In islam the parents are respected highly and for children to utter even one word out of anger to parents is looked down upon. I am sure there are instances in west where muslims who have been affected by western culture are also starting to abuse the elderly and parents. When i was in western countries I have seen when children start using f word against parents and i just don`t understand where these kids get the nerve to do these kind of things! That f word will later on in life turn from words into beatings and abuse of parents it clearly starts from a young age and the system has some serious flaws for this behaviour to take root.

how sad :(
I hate to imagine how our kids will treat us when we are elderly
really scares the hell out of me

very very sad...

The abuse of vulnerable is a fact across all divides, in some places more than others by some people as compared to others. The secular societies are trying to do something about it hence the monitoring and gatherings of statistics. The purpose is to troubleshoot and find the defects to take corrective measures for improving the situation.

The main problem is that people who come with ideas are not the ones that run the show and others need to be ecudated to actual purpose of such setups, which is not easy.

Most of the humans being animals act first and think later. This leads to production of unwanted children and likewise unwanted parents and so the cycle repeats itself.

If more and more people thought out the consequences of their actions, they would not produce children that they cannot bring up properly. In a chaotic situation one cannot expect but chaos.

If parents are good, there is no guaranty that their childern will turn out the way they want them to be but if parents are bad then there is even less of a chance that things will turn out ok in the end.

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My sister used to work voluntarily in an old peoples home, she was told not to annoy them cause all they do is sit there and stare at the walls all day and their relatives hardly ever visit. The old people were very bitter.

Amongst most muslims the elders are respected and usually looked after.

Id rather spend time with my family and die 10-15 years earlier then end up there.

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My sister used to work voluntarily in an old peoples home, she was told not to annoy them cause all they do is sit there and stare at the walls all day and their relatives hardly ever visit. The old people were very bitter.

Amongst most muslims the elders are respected and usually looked after.

Id rather spend time with my family and die 10-15 years earlier then end up there.
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I'd rather spend time with my family and have the extra 10-15 years. In the west I have that option. To generalize that most westerners don't respect and look after their parents is not a fair assessment even though it is more widespread than in undeveloped countries. Personally, I would never let my parents be discarded and neither do the most people I associate with.