Abuse

[Marmalade]

Okay, so we’ve had a lot of threads about women complaining about how their inlaws/husbands have been treating them. We’ve also had some threads about people complaining about women complaining about their husbands/inlaws.

So what I’d like to ask is…

**1) What, in your opinion, is spousal abuse?
2) Are there different kinds of abuse? Or is abuse only physical?
3) What should be done in cases where spousal abuse exists?
4) What do you not consider abuse (which other people might consider as abuse)?
5) Is there a limit to how much abuse can be tolerated?
6) Do you believe that an abusive marriage or relationship can be improved and developed into a healthy marriage/relationship?
**

[Khumar]

Re: Abuse

@Marmalade

1. What, in your opinion, is spousal abuse?
2. Are there different kinds of abuse? Or is abuse only physical?

http://www.paklinks.com/gs/life-and-relationships/494384-can-husband-man-change-his-bad-behaviour-3.html#post8205301

@Marmalade

3. What should be done in cases where spousal abuse exists?

Seek help. Immediately. Do not sit around and think what went wrong and that you’re mistaken. Seek help.

@Marmalade

5. Is there a limit to how much abuse can be tolerated?

The word limit should never be associated with any form of abuse. Be is spousal, elderly, child, animal, whatever.

@Marmalade

6. Do you believe that an abusive marriage or relationship can be improved and developed into a healthy marriage/relationship?

One would always hope so. But it’s hard to break a vicious cycle. Change comes from within. If a person doesn’t recognize they have a fault, then no matter how much outside forces work upon it, the change would never occur.

[CEO1]

Re: Abuse

Okay, so we've had a lot of threads about women complaining about how their inlaws/husbands have been treating them. We've also had some threads about people complaining about women complaining about their husbands/inlaws.

So what I'd like to ask is...

*1) What, in your opinion, is spousal abuse? 2) Are there different kinds of abuse? Or is abuse only physical? 3) What should be done in cases where spousal abuse exists? 4) What do you *not consider abuse (which other people might consider as abuse)? 5) Is there a limit to how much abuse can be tolerated? 6) Do you believe that an abusive marriage or relationship can be improved and developed into a healthy marriage/relationship? **

1. Absolutely not on. No abuse should take place for a healthy marriage.
2. There is emotional and mental abuse.
3. Seek help through council or family members.
4. As long as it is not violent, or mentally affecting the other person.
5. Yes, everyone can crack.
6. One can always hope but changing trait in a person is a difficult thing. I hope it can.