spied on by your spouse or significant other who might become your spouse in near future?
how would you respond to this?
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Oooooh, not well. Spying is NOT cool in my book. WHY is he spying on you?
Ive been spied on by a SO and when I realized I was being followed, I just took him for a trip all over the city.
He never even caught on that I knew until I drove right into the police station. :)
I would catch him IN the act of spying and then question him as to WHY.
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al hamd el allah, no one is spying on me. it is a question that just came to mind, seeing that so many people fight over feeling unable to trust each other at a very delicate time in their marriage .
good that you drove the person around. maybe he did need to see the police office.
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Really bad move, wouldn't have anything more to do with him.
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Oh come on, a little bit of stalking never harmed anybody. Its all good fun.
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spied or checked out? i think every lady/gent should thoroughly check out a significant other for skeletons in the closet or see if their work/school/background is on the up and up.
if you choose, tell them beforehand that you plan to verify the pieces of their life. jobs do background checks...so it's fair game.
it saves a lotta heartache later to find there was a previous marriage/kids/loss of current job that you may not have known otherwise.
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here's the deal- if they tell you prior to it...it's a background check. and if you're clean you should be okay with that.
if they don't tell u- it's spying and that tell's you about their personality (jealous type, insecure..) and yes, confront them and discuss it.
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I believe spying on your significant other is being imature and insecure,also that would end the trust,irregardless of the other actions..I would never do that,and would never like it to be spied by my significant other..