Re: About my relationship with my fiance.
Although I agree that the OP made a very poor choice of words when trying to express herself, I disagree with your comments about making peace. You can’t get into a relationship making peace with things that don’t quite take your fancy.
Religion is a very personal matter which is why it can have a profound effect on any relationship. Contrary to popular belief, there aren’t any rainbows, butterflies and pixies when someone is in love and therefore our personal choices have a very strong bearing on how successful or otherwise our relationships are.
It isn’t even about Shia or Sunni. I don’t really think too much about that because my brother from another mother (I know him for almost twenty years now) is married to a Shia girl and they’re in their second year of a very blessed and happy marriage (Masha’Allah). Sure, religious differences is the label given in this situation but the real issue is the change in the persona of her fiance. I say all that only because the OP fell for a person who behaved a certain way and is now moving towards a different kind of behaviour. That is enough to cause doubts, insecurities and a whole plethora of other issues.