Afia,
InshAllah Allah behtar karain gay. Zainab hamari duaoon may rahay gi..
Allah swt seht de.
thank you everyone for your support n prayers .....i'm really really thankful
n thanx a lot to the person who made it a sticky ....may Allah reward you all here , n hereafter !amen!
well, i'm really regretting ,...not listening to doc. yesterday ....but it wasn't intentional /....now ....i've recalled that half hour soooo many times .....but i fail to join the pieces of this puzzle everytime ....
what was he actually telling me ...??
was it something about lukimea
why he was mentioning 'bone marrow'
n how on earth they will check her bone marrow without hurting her .....
horrible ....!!!
a disease itself is enough to suffer .....but i tell u ....these long procedures to diagnose r a constant torture , not only to patient
today is 'eid' here......she is looking even more cuter in her new dress ....
crawling ....standing ....shouting at brothers , calling her father ....n even copying him ....
whenever he coughs or pretends like coughing ....she copies him ...n then smiles .......a priceless smile !!!
doc is mad .....he doesn't know she is perfectly alright
oh , look at her
she's too innocent to even pretend like a patient .....nobody can say she is sick .....
in past 24 hrs .....wherever i see , i see blood , syringes , canula , needles ., n all that scary stuff ....
totally confused .....
i tried reading the reference lettter from our doc. to hospital ....i saw it on his computer too ,...there was something about beta thalassemia ....but he denied she has it ....
don't know whats coming next .....
i've got just one more day ......a lot of stuff to do .....
i've spent all day cooking n freezing everything .....her two brothers r school-going .....n its going to be a hectic week ....
i'm struggling on many fronts .....zainab , hospital , school , kids , ready to eat meals ...prepared lunch boxes ....
i just want to stop thinking .....
prayers , badly needed!!!
Afia - please try to remain positive and strong. You and Zainab are in everyones prayers and Inshahallah things will be fine. I understand what you're feeling as I was there myself a few months ago and I know how tough it is but you have to try and keep a clear head.
PM me for more info on the bone marrow test if you need any reassurance.
:( I'm sorry to hear that.
Allah miyaan aapki pareshaaniyaan dur karre
Be strong Afia and it’ll be tough but think positive if only for your family’s sake. InshAllah everything will work out for the best in the end. May Allah swt ease all your hardships. Zainab will be in our prayers.
Hang on there.
Inshallah Allah will ease this difficult period for you. May Allah give her health.
Hi again Afia
sorry your little angel has to go thru all that horrible stuff.
I really hope noone has to go thru what your family
is going thru at the time.
What country are u in if u don't mind telling?
Sorry hon
really wish I could do something to help.
Afia, I had a bone marrow test when i was little.. under 5 i dont remember my exact age then. i remember it was scary for me going in but i remember being slightly surprised that i was getting so much attention from ammi afterwards over something that didnt hurt as much as that stupid blood test (i used to hate blood tests a lot more than the bone marrrow). but i appreciated the coddling anyway :). rest assured that the pain is not too much above that threshold..
May Allah :swt: grant her a speedy recovery and a long healthy life ahead Ameen
Prayers with u afia...Allah khair karay ga...iNshAllah
Ms Afia,
You have my heartfelt prayers and best wishes for your little girl. I know how hard it is when there is something wrong....
You need to get yourself together. You need to read everything and anything you can find about the problems with your little girl. You need to know everything you can possibly know about diagnosis, treatment etc etc. Most of all, you need to be strong and happy for her and for your other little ones. It must be so hard to look at the beauty of a happy and apparently healthy little girl and admit that there may be something seriously wrong...But DONT fall into that trap!! It could be her life at stake here...never rest until you're SURE she is getting the very best of care.
MUCH easier said than done, I know since I've been there and I'm still there, each and every day. When my tears flow, its when I'm alone. My boys will never know how distressed I am at times. And I try not to let my dear husband know either although he knows me too well etc etc,
If you need or want any help researching treatment options, diagnosis etc please let me know, my son's condition is really complicated so I got to be somewhat of an expert on finding info....
In the meantime, you are in my thoughts and prayers....take good care of yourself, be strong and face the storm.
Afia baji inshallah Allah swt aap ko is imtehaan ke wakt mein asaani zaroor ata Karay Ga…aameen…and Zainab is going to be completely fine inshallah
She’ll be fine soon, inshAllah. Just keep faith in Allah!
May Allah take good care of her and your family.
Best wishes to all of you.
may Allah restore her good health and keep her in His protection...
pray to Allah and He listens to those who call on Him....
my friend's father was diagnosed with lung cancer (smoking ofcourse)....
he was a good man....
his family prayed for him, friends prayed for him....
and on the day of the operation, the last minute tests showed no signs of cancer....
the operation was cancelled, he was diagnosed again but there was simply no sign of cancer....
Allah does what He wills to do....
P.S. giving out sadaqa really helps in prayers for health....
Afia, may Allah give her good health.
We'll all pray for your little girl.Insh'Allah she will be fine.Afia you have to hang in there and be strong for your other children.I know its hard...but dont panic...try to stay calm...things will be fine.
how is Zainab doing now Afia baji and how r u..? do tell us :-)