About Marriage

[teggy]

Re: About Marriage

@barfi

But I have seen some people who don’t even lift their fingers & get everything on their doorstpe, why is it so, are some people special? on the contrary, people who have been trying like hell day & night gets nothing, so what it implies that whatever is written in your qismat will come your way no matter what instead you go after it.
Allah ne saare kaam apni marzi se hi karne he, insaan jo marzi karta phiray . yeah I know now people will se har kaam mein Allah ki behtari hoti he laikin kisi k bura hone mein us ki behtari kaisi ho sakti he

We’re all tested differently. Do not take a delay in something you want to have happen as a bad thing. Sometimes a delay of something good results in something better.

Would you prefer to get married right this minute, and have a less than devoted spouse? Or would you put your faith in Allah, do your best to find a suitable mate, but know in your heart that perhaps Allah has delayed this, and you may end up with the best woman who will become a reason for blessings for you and your children.

Don’t despair my friend. Don’t abandon hope in Allah.

Don’t envy others or have doubts in your heart if others have more than you. Perhaps their excesses may become a burden for them, while your lack of provision may become a source of blessing for you. Sometimes the less you have is better than having more. And vice versa. The ultimate reward, and end result is what you really want.

Ask yourself this, can you be absolutely sure of your future if things happened the way you want them to? Instead you can be sure what Allah has planned is better. The wait is already destined, why not make the best of it, and earn some reward by displaying patience and happiness with the situation. You get rewarded double. 1, for keeping strong and doing things to facilitate your need, and 2. for being thankful to Allah even if things aren’t as you want.