hmm, like u em either not into makeup so much, but yes for basic skin care u must stop using that bar soap, ur skin will end up dry using it. take any gud branded face wash for daily use. n yep exfoliation is too necessary, even i am laking this habbit, me too shud add it in my basic skin care.
for getting softer skin i use baby lotion as a moisturizer, u can also get moisurizers of different barnds, i preffer baby lotion cz the posibility of much chamicals is less. 
enjoy ur daily care…