Well, I don’t have anything against them, but at times in flow of emotions they say things and behave in a certain manner which might need to be evaluated by themselves in terms of their own beliefs. I humbly feel any act or word that shows dominance of **Ishq-e-Majazi (Love for a person) **over **Ishq-e-Haquiqui (Love for Allah) **needs to be reconsidered for correction.
With no offense to anyone, I have seen people who talk about their beloved ones more then they talk about the blessings of Allah (swt) upon themselves. Whether it is any beautiful girl one wants to marry, whether it is a spiritual leader one wants to follow, whether it is ANY prophet, whether it is any specific Sahabi, NO ONE deserves more praise and more gratitude then Allah (swt), but still a lot of people get involved in such acts (Intentionally or unintentionally).
For Example:
Allah (swt) describes in the Quran this quality of a Mo’min that he keeps remembering (doing Zikr) of Allah (swt) while walking, siting or lying on comfortable beds. Even the Prophet (saw) said in a hadith that one should remember Allah (swt) so much in his thoughts and speech that people might start considering him insane. It is natural, when we love someone very much, we can’t resist talking about Him all the time.
BUT unfortunately such a passion is now a days being observed in the youth for “people” who don’t deserve it more then the ultimate Lord.
The only way increase the love of Allah is by counting ones blessings. Comparing oneself with those who are less fortunate.
But the problem is that human is greedy creature , they are never satisfied with what they have , they are never thankful to Allah for what Allah out of Allah's mercy has bestowed on them. They want more and more. They think whatever Allah has given them is what they deserved , they never think that is Allah's mercy that they have what they have.
No amount of dikr/zikr of Allah is going to create Allahs love in the heart of a person if that dikr/zikr is devoid of real emotions behind it. The real love of Allah and real dikr/zikr of Allah can only come from heart if a person is thankful to Allah from the core of his/her heart.
STP , i think that love and obedience of Allah stays in a momin's heart , no matter what , some do express that in words like do dhikr/ zikr, whereas others do it silently & keep it to themselves , if someone's more expressive only in ishq-e-majazi (like a poet for instance) than that person shouldn't be considered /confused as ignorant or the one who've no ishq-e-haqiqui at all.