Aap kia chahtay hain meray se?

[ArabJaani]

Re: Aap kia chahtay hain meray se?

@zobia

btw, your name is quite cute.

Thanks zobia, inshallah I will try talking to them!!

@madinahme

He is def. not a angel (fasishta), he is a human remember?

@madinahme

He is def. not a angel (fasishta), he is a human remember

Ye madiname, I know he is def not farishta, but I forgot to mention most of what happens in my life be it good or bad things, I feel that Allah is either blessing me or testing me. Thats it

@sarab

He wants you and you mom is trying to get you used to been with him

Whats this suppose to mean? Explaination needed here in order to respond to this sentence.

@sarab

Wonders never cease, what parent forces their child to almost miss prayers and go out unchaperoned with a na mahram.

Ji nahie, I did not miss the Isha prayer. He knew and knows that I love masjids and their views at night, so he decided to take me to Allah’s house and offer prayer there.

@redvelvet

I get the vibe that he’s interested and also that your parents…especially your mom…seems supportive about the idea. If his recent behavior…calling you/emailing you frequently…is not typical of him (as in he never used to behave like that)…then it’s possible that he’s developed an interest. He obviously can’t hate you if he’s contacting you so many times and wants to spend time with you. ***I wouldn’t rush into anything. If you find some of his actions to be off-putting…just go with the flow…don’t hope for anything. While interacting out with him…you may even find that you don’t like certain aspects of his personality and there’s nothing wrong with that. Being told what to wear is off-putting…but he may have asked you to wear a shalwar kameez because you were going to the masjid and he wanted you to dress accordingly. Is he trying to make me forget about my past?" It’s possible that, as your cousin, he’s spending time with you to take your mind off the tension. But I don’t think it’s a good idea to depend upon someone else (as in start a relationship) just to forget your ex. It can potentially hurt both parties. “Is he a farishta sent to me by Allah swt?” I think it’s too soon to entertain such a Bollywoodish thought…and you do often sound Bollywoodish. Again, just go with the flow without forming any “future” expectations of him. ****If you end up finding out that he does have a romantic interest and that your parents are indeed thinking of a rishta between you two…and let’s say you feel he isn’t the one…then you need to let both parties know otherwise we’ll be reading another thread about cousin marriage drama.

Mashallah, thank you RV.

@queer

vutt a coinkydinky

Ji haan queer aapi, bas aap ki duaaain saath hain