Aap ki beti bhut

[wannabe_a_mum]

Re: Aap ki beti bhut

@PakistaniAbroad

hmmm where did she brag about herself and her family? according to the little info we have she praised the girl's family and concluded the meeting on a non-committal note.. Perfectly understandable for families who want to keep their options open and arrive at decisions after a lot of collective input from various decision makers in the process.. including but not limited to the guy himself!!

all it means is that it's neither a haaN or a Naa and OP's family is free to seek more rishtas..

In my experience and maybe opinion, these mums pressure the marriage fixers to get them an "appointment" with so and so to go see their daughter and then they sit there asking questions, finding out family history etc etc, dropping a few things in about her status etc and then at the end they say "Allah ki marzee" or "We'll let you know".....
Yes, I know the decision can't always be made there and then, but hey, what's the harm in just wishing each other well and leaving.......the answer in my experience usually goes through the marriage fixer anyway..................

I know there will always be a "3rd person" the person who makes rishteh their job, and they will get sawab for it, but the mum's who pester for a meeting and then say, oh we didn't want a girl who was educated/working/from Pakistan/that age......DUH you find all that out BEFORE you go to the meeting!