'Aap haseen hein' - aik compliment aya...

jawab meye betlayeye geye: 'aap pheleye apneye aap ko tow deikhien. takaluf nahi karein, taraaf meye. apni karien, wohee kafee heye. ’

why people dont see that somebody may not like that they are being praised for kush shakelee, pretty appearance?

illuminate in the issue.

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I know that in office enviornment, calling a girl 'hey pretty lady' is no longer a compliment. It is considered a mild form of sexual harrassment.

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right. & also Tariq bhai, it is a societal oversight, that must be condemned.

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I personaly think that to praise a person of opposite gender (of their physical aspect) one needs to have certain degree of relationship with that person.

Like 2 adults should be romanticaly involved (H/W., Fiance or even GF) for guy to say that to the girl.

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absolutely. i agree.

Re: ‘Aap haseen hein’ - aik compliment aya…

per mujhay to aaj tuk kisi ne aisa nahi bola :bummer:

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ghoom phir ker, TLK Bhai, waheen keye waheen?
kiya bheneye ga aap ka?

meye Niksik ko zara salam dua ka phone karoon??

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TLK: Niki anty aap ko pasand nahin kerti hongi :mocking:

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:>

yeah..i feel weird when guys say that.. unless i know them. but smart guyz dont compliment u 2 ur face. it does seem sort of cheap even if hte girl is pretty bcs its saying that im just focusing on u as an object of my lustful desires.

but when women do it, its ok.

but even if men dont compliment u but they keep oggling u then that is just as uncomfortable as if htey comliment u.. sorry that was me brainsotrming! :)

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I so agree with soni, smart guys do not compliment you in person. I personally do not like a random person complimenting me. It indicates to the recipient that the other person is a flirt.

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no, the same goes for women. women must also not compliment a na-mherem for being handsome.

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smart guys are like smart robots - rare.

I never compliment any one apart from my female friends or cousins :cb:

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^^ Its not problem of robots … its problem of Artificial Intelligence … and problem with AI is due to all the nerds who can’t write those algorithms right … :barbie:

:yahoo:

U meany :barbie:

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Namaan: Jhooti tareef mujh se nahin hoti :barbie:

app sa sachay monh bhee nahi hoti :barbie:

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This is what I did once in front of girls common room in my engineering univ. in karachi.

i sat there with a friend of mine, and whenever I saw a homely looking girl, I said to my freind, Yaar tum to keh rahay thay kay N.E.D. main koi achchi shakal ki larki nahi hai' :D

that was my stupid way of passing compliment to grils who probably never gotten that comment cause they were really not a beauty queen to begin with

sorry Dushi, I know that you would not appreciate what I wrote but that was many years ago :)

Sachay monh hoti hai :barbie: Chalo khush ho jao nami tumhari na mochain bohot achi hain :cb: