AaJ

Lifestyle Relationships
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mujh ko bohat dukh ho raha hy..
Ek larki thi…meri aur us ki family humari shaadi kerna chahty thy..

I was not attracted… so I kept acting like donkey being forced to do some thing.
Whole thing broke.

I had every reason to do what I did. I did not lie,hide, or made false promises to her of my family.

lekin woh bohat rooti thi… aaj mujh ko pata naheen kahan sy yaad aa gia…
bohat dukh ho raha hy… b :frowning:

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call and apologize for hurting her? It might bring her closure if she hasn't had any, and bring closure to you too.

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I wanted to, but sis said don't!!
Told me to stay away.

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We must accept finite disappointment, but never lose infinite hope. ... still their is an hope to make an good friend be true and talk to her what you really felt !!

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kitna arsa purani baat hai? and aaj kiun yaad aa gayi?..if she is still unmarried tou u can try again..:bummer:

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tch tch. hum aap ke ghum mei shareek hain.nakli anso ponching

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Mardon ko hamesha delayed reaction kyun hote hein?

Allah miyan se maafi mangein aur tauba karein ke kisi ka dil is tarha nahin dukhayenge dubara.

Jaiyye...Allah miyan apko moti tazi bivi dein...

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He doesn't wana marry her . . . and she got hurt by that . . . how come its his fault ??

Reverse the situation , where she would have rejected him . . . and everything would have been ok . Rubbish .

Monk you did the right thing . No need to apologize or anything . She'll get over it .

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^He acted like an a*s, that bit is his fault. Not wanting to marry her is not his fault. It was a better decision to end it then to go ahead with it. But it did hurt her and he is not ok with causing that pain to her. He can apologize for causing that pain, not for not marrying her.

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How old is this story? If its longer than a year, **** it. She is married by now and most likely happy. So why screw that up. Once a woman is out of your life it should stay that way.

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:lifey: i agree

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I would blame the girl for trusting a person like you and she must not be spared for such a mistake.

Now punish her by marrying her :D

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Naman :lifey: you are one smart man.
CM: dude, its like 4 year ago.
Reha: I am not falling in love or any thing, I am saying for some reason I remember her crying.
I mad me very angry and sad at times, but I didn’t know how to fix it.

ppl she is happily married with a child, and admit what happened was for the best.

@reha

moti taazi biwi ?? :omg: :omg:

I think so too, since I was to marry a paistani girl. :smiley:

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monk stop making urself sick thiking about this stuff .. it means nothing now ..

leave it n her allone ..

if u open up this can of worms ur gona feel even worse aferwards

u go on with ur life just like shes goin on with hers

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If you've ever made a person cry or hurt them..apologize. Doesn't matter if she's married or has children..

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I would say leave her alone, esp if she is married, you are not going to make her feel any better, and if she really liked you and after you apologizing and stuff she cries again you will not like it, actually will be even worse, so kooch batain na kahi jain tu theek hoti hain...

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did you encouraged her in anyway? did you give any signals from your side? if no then its not your fault and you dont have to/had to say sorry (although feeling sorry is fine) but if you did, you should have gone back and apologizedbut aab, raat gaee baat gaee...

There are few matters which should not be revisited and this is one of those...