wassy ager me uss ki jaagah hoti tu ammi abbi ko puchti jo woh kahty…
achchhaa…Khair…to age story baRtii hai:
laRka bahot Khush thaa. use Khushi thii k vo maaN baap kii maalii imdaad bhii kar sakegaa aur apna ghar bhii basaa sakegaa. sab iimaaandaarii ke saaath. uske paas uski honewaali biwi kii 3 pics thiiN jise vo dekhta aur kahta k maiN tumko bahooot chaahuuNgaa, ummeed hai k tum bhi mujhe chaahogi.
laRke ke paas paise nahiiN the k vo ticket Khareed sakta airline ka. sasural waaloN ne ticket bhejaa. phir use visa mila…fiance’ visa…jiskii shart yeh thi k laRkaa australia pahoNchne ke ba’d laRkii se shaadi karegaa 6 mahine ke andar varna use vaaps bhej diyaa jaayegaa
to be continued:
kia uskaa sasuraal waaloN se airline ticket lena munaasib thaa?
depend…ager tu woh rishtydaar thy booooooooooooooooohaat kareebi phir tu theek werna…daal kali kalli
ooo hoo ho …ek or mareez…aao aoo aap bhi aaoo..ilaj bhi ho ga..aap apni kahani shuru keroo..ni tu bhagra shuruu keroo..ni tu reply kroo g..
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he came to australia
he was very happpy. everybody except the girl came to the airport to pick him up. he was looking for her then his sis in law said she didn’t come coz its not acceptable in our culture for the bou and the girl see eachother b4 marriage. its sounded right to the village guy. he came to sasural like he was a girl who was ruKhsatified and brought to the sasural.
nexct morning they went to the Govt office to register their intention to get married and get the necessary documentation to for the family friend who was gonna solemnize the wedding.
he saw her in the back seat of the car but did not speak a word to eachother…not even salaam…they both were shy in the company of elders
to be continued
what do you think? was it ok not to let the boy and the girl meet? or, atleast give them some privacy to have a lil conversation? or, was it ok to deny them any say in the matter?**
good na…shadi se pehlly shakel dekh li,salam dua tu hona chahiye tha…chelty phirty bhi dekhna chaiye tha…khair…aab ty munda aagya ..ab ki faida…
**yes, i agree with you…zaalim samaaj … ufff!!!
next day [thursday], his wud be mother in law came to him and said…beTaa…we live in the same house and its hard for us to maintain parda between u and my beTii so wudn’t it make sense if you to got married ASAP..and further suggested that the marriage may take place on the weekend [sat]. he thought…well, yes it does make sense and he had the purity of intention to get married anyways so why put the family thru more inconvenience who had done great favours by bringing him over to australia, paying his fair and now wedding…so he said OK.
saturday was a big day in his life. he was happpy but very lonely…he was all by himself. no friends, no family members…just himself. he had to take care of himself. it was the day he had been waiting for 7 months and thats how long it took for him to go thru the visa processing.
to be continued:
This happy day was marked by lonliness and worries and the fear of the unknown. should they have travelled to their native country with the girl and got married there so the boys family could attend the wedding. what do you **think?
pehlly tu dall kali thi abb tu boo bhi aany lag gai hy…
sir aassa akser akser akser hota hy…but yahan tu lerky k maan baap ko bhi visit visa py bula liya jata hy…
KKF
October 5, 2009, 3:37pm
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October 5, 2009, 3:39pm
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ok then, 6 pm he got ready. greyish suit with red tie. he was waiting for some1 to come and take him to the living room like a dulhan. the father in law did come and took him upstairs asking him if he missed his family members. indeed, he did. he was led into the livingroom where about 30 men women and about 10 children were there. dulhan was sitting too…every1 was sitting on the carpet. dulha was introduced to the guests and every1 hugged him and shook hands and welcomed him to the family. they sat down. nikaah was done in english which was a shokker to the dulha. ajeeb shaadi thii…qaazii ji bhi clean shaven the aur suit pahen rakkhaa thaa…nikaah kii mahr bhi sasural waaloN ne Khud hii tai kar di thi…1 laakh dollar. dulhe ne socha itni ziyada raqam kiuN? but he had no say in anything so he accepted.
uske bad sab ne shaadii kii mubaarak baad di. laRke ne angooThi pahnaaii laRkii ko
to be continued tomorrow coz its 2:45 am here and i’m tooo sleepy…see ya tomorrow iA…Allah Haafiz
why there were so many restrictions around the dulhan? why didn’t she talk?
nikah ho gya..mubarak ho..daal bhi jal jal k sokh gai…patilli bhi khrab ho gai..
KKF
October 5, 2009, 3:42pm
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ALLAH SOHNA py tawakal…hmmmm…ye jumla sarri kahani khtm kerny ko kaffi hy…ager uss ko ALLAH SOHNA py tawakel tha tu uss ko apnny maan baap k paas reh k roz namaz ada ker k ALLAH SOHNA se duain kerni chahiye thain maan baap ki khidmat kerni chahiye thi phir ager woh gareeb bhi na rehta na duniyaa main na akhret main…
ek baar ek Sahabi ek oont py APP SAL LAL LAHU ELEHY WA AALEHI WASLAM k paas aaay tu oont ko kholla hi bahor choor diya,AAP SAL LAL LAHU ELEHY WA AALEHI WASALAAM ny pucha k khola kiyoon chora tu un Sahibi ny fermaya k ALLAH SOHNA py tawakal …AAP SAL LAL LAHU ELEHY WA ALEHI WASLALAM ny fremaya k jaoo pehlly oont ko bandhoo phir ALLAH SUBHAAN WA TA’ALA py tawakal kero..(i wrote in my alfaz n short hadees)
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aapne saHeeH kahaa…pahle ham apen tayiiN jo kar sakte haiN vo kareN phir Allah kii madad kii ummeed karen, us par tawakkul kareN.**
oooo…me tu happy thi k me itny din k baad aai hoon kahan i khtam ho chukki ho gi???hmmm…ok..dulhan bol ni saktithi,uss k dant ni thy..:)…woh intahai monh ohat thi monh kholty hi gali nikalti thi,hmmm yaaa …mujhy khud ni pata ab me ko lazmi aaj raat ana pery ga..story dekhny k liye…
KKF
October 5, 2009, 3:45pm
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October 5, 2009, 3:46pm
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**haN shakl dekh lenaa bhii kaafii nai hotaa…do baat karna bhi zaroorii hotaa hai mizaaj ko jaanne ke liye
daal kaali, kaali billi, billi khatra!!!..hahaha…hai na?
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oooo…me tu happy thi k me itny din k baad aai hoon kahan i khtam ho chukki ho gi???hmmm…ok..dulhan bol ni saktithi,uss k dant ni thy..:)…woh intahai monh ohat thi monh kholty hi gali nikalti thi,hmmm yaaa …mujhy khud ni pata ab me ko lazmi aaj raat ana pery ga..story dekhny k liye…
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Esix
October 5, 2009, 4:05pm
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Re: aaj ki amman
[note] kindly dont post 3 times or more consecutively, its against GS http://www.paklinks.com/gs/gupshup-cafe/284560-cafe-policies.html and use multi quote option if you have to quote multiple posts :phati:[/note]
KKF
October 5, 2009, 4:07pm
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Esix
October 5, 2009, 4:10pm
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Re: aaj ki amman
no problem bro
KKF
October 5, 2009, 5:06pm
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no problem bro
wow…tahnk you…amazing how things are done so fast N effectively
LP
October 5, 2009, 9:20pm
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Re: aaj ki amman
I know the storyyyyyyyyyyyyy
KKF
October 5, 2009, 9:21pm
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to sab ko bataa mat dena kahiiN hehe
ye kiya baat hui..:(…btaoo naa…princess u btaoo..candy doon gi…
KKF
October 5, 2009, 11:02pm
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haN meri taraf se bhii ek candy
to it was ok to take the FREE ticket :)**
