aaj ki amman

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storrrrrrrrrryyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy :teary2: kahaan hai

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u sound right but he had no money. he couldn’t arrange for any money and a lot of money…that meant he couldn’t go…he had to accept the FREE ticket…Khair

he came to australia

he was very happpy. everybody except the girl came to the airport to pick him up. he was looking for her then his sis in law said she didn’t come coz its not acceptable in our culture for the bou and the girl see eachother b4 marriage. its sounded right to the village guy. he came to sasural like he was a girl who was ruKhsatified and brought to the sasural.

nexct morning they went to the Govt office to register their intention to get married and get the necessary documentation to for the family friend who was gonna solemnize the wedding.

he saw her in the back seat of the car but did not speak a word to eachother…not even salaam…they both were shy in the company of elders

to be continued

what do you think? was it ok not to let the boy and the girl meet? or, atleast give them some privacy to have a lil conversation? or, was it ok to deny them any say in the matter?**

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They should've been allowed one meet in the presence of the elders of the family

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**yes, i agree with you...zaalim samaaj .... ufff!!!!

next day [thursday], his wud be mother in law came to him and said...beTaa...we live in the same house and its hard for us to maintain parda between u and my beTii so wudn't it make sense if you to got married ASAP..and further suggested that the marriage may take place on the weekend [sat]. he thought...well, yes it does make sense and he had the purity of intention to get married anyways so why put the family thru more inconvenience who had done great favours by bringing him over to australia, paying his fair and now wedding...so he said OK.

saturday was a big day in his life. he was happpy but very lonely...he was all by himself. no friends, no family members...just himself. he had to take care of himself. it was the day he had been waiting for 7 months and thats how long it took for him to go thru the visa processing.

to be continued:

This happy day was marked by lonliness and worries and the fear of the unknown. should they have travelled to their native country with the girl and got married there so the boys family could attend the wedding. what do you ***think?*

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then the girls family would not have been to attend

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girl's family was a small one...they could have travelled with ease. sasural khaataa peetaa thaa lol**

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:hmmm:
travel for marriage is not necessary.
jahan dono larki aur larka hai buss shadi waheen hoo jaani chahiye.
But i still think the larka should not have travelled to australia.

ab aagey ki story sunaain

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ok…par meri story ka hero bechaaraa bin baarata kaa dulhaa hai na…lonely bechaaraa…Khair…shaam tak dulhan aa jaayegi to he’ll not miss any1 ;)**

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jaldiiii story sunaain :vivo:
end tuk ticket toh nahi laga daingey story pe :5:

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haha nahiiN baba…laga duUNgaa to sunegaa kaun haha?

ok then, 6 pm he got ready. greyish suit with red tie. he was waiting for some1 to come and take him to the living room like a dulhan. the father in law did come and took him upstairs asking him if he missed his family members. indeed, he did. he was led into the livingroom where about 30 men women and about 10 children were there. dulhan was sitting too…every1 was sitting on the carpet. dulha was introduced to the guests and every1 hugged him and shook hands and welcomed him to the family. they sat down. nikaah was done in english which was a shokker to the dulha. ajeeb shaadi thii…qaazii ji bhi clean shaven the aur suit pahen rakkhaa thaa…nikaah kii mahr bhi sasural waaloN ne Khud hii tai kar di thi…1 laakh dollar. dulhe ne socha itni ziyada raqam kiuN? but he had no say in anything so he accepted.

uske bad sab ne shaadii kii mubaarak baad di. laRke ne angooThi pahnaaii laRkii ko
phir khaanaa vaanaa huaa. koi 11 baj gaye raat ke to especial foto op session shuru huaa. dulhan tired thi. is beech dulhan ne ek lafz bhii nahiiN diyaa jaise use instruction diyaa gayaa ho na bolne kaa. tasaaveer ke ba’d unke family friend ne dulha dulhan ko Hotel le gaye…aur vahaN un donoN ko vo log chhoR kar chale aaye.

to be continued tomorrow coz its 2:45 am here and i’m tooo sleepy…see ya tomorrow iA…Allah Haafiz :slight_smile:

why there were so many restrictions around the dulhan? why didn’t she talk?
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somethigns fishyyyyyyyyyyy

& hashmat
nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
NOT FAIRrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
aisey beech mei latka ke chor idyaaaaa

:naraz:

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ok aaj itny din k baad yahan aai..kaffi msgs ..sab ko jawab deti..mujhy or koi kaam jo ni hy “filhaal”…aaap bhi bore yani ye “wabba” her taraf phailli hui hy…hmm..ilaj hy mery paas k jawab nipta k batati hoon..:slight_smile:

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ooh aap ko bhi ye wabba lag gai…hmmm..theek theekk..batti hoon..ilaj…

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right place hy tu bataya naaaa.....but khud hi late atti hoon yahan..koon hy entertainer???aaap???...ok apnny bhagra dance ki koi movie uplaod karin ..me wanna watch..:D

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g jald hi he ll upload his bhagra dance movie…:smiley:

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nahi..bhangra bhangra bhangra...baad main jab aap thak jaoo tu kahani bhi zarooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooorrrrrrrrr sunana..

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awwww cute princess…kahani baad main theek??acchy bachy zid ni kelty ok..pehlly dance dekhain gy theekk…??shabash..

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shadi...hmm yani mehndi ...yani bhagnraa....sure sure....

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kya faida???sorat acchhi hi ho gi…bair k mulk main tip top hi sab rehti haan…baat tu seerat ki hy..n ii see..jab seerat acchi na ho tu sort kitni bhi pretty ho kha makha hi buri lagnny lag jati hy…

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ALLAH SOHNA py tawakal....hmmmm.....ye jumla sarri kahani khtm kerny ko kaffi hy...ager uss ko ALLAH SOHNA py tawakel tha tu uss ko apnny maan baap k paas reh k roz namaz ada ker k ALLAH SOHNA se duain kerni chahiye thain maan baap ki khidmat kerni chahiye thi phir ager woh gareeb bhi na rehta na duniyaa main na akhret main...

ek baar ek Sahabi ek oont py APP SAL LAL LAHU ELEHY WA AALEHI WASLAM k paas aaay tu oont ko kholla hi bahor choor diya,AAP SAL LAL LAHU ELEHY WA AALEHI WASALAAM ny pucha k khola kiyoon chora tu un Sahibi ny fermaya k ALLAH SOHNA py tawakal ...AAP SAL LAL LAHU ELEHY WA ALEHI WASLALAM ny fremaya k jaoo pehlly oont ko bandhoo phir ALLAH SUBHAAN WA TA'ALA py tawakal kero..(i wrote in my alfaz n short hadees)
tu jnab ye baat hy
lekinnnnn
jab halaat khrab hoon tu insaan just wohi kerta hy jo uss ko theek lgta hy.uss waqt uss ki wish k khilaf koi bhi boly chahy uss ka koi ssaga kiyoon na ho dushman lagat hy...