They should've been allowed one meet in the presence of the elders of the family
**yes, i agree with you...zaalim samaaj .... ufff!!!!
next day [thursday], his wud be mother in law came to him and said...beTaa...we live in the same house and its hard for us to maintain parda between u and my beTii so wudn't it make sense if you to got married ASAP..and further suggested that the marriage may take place on the weekend [sat]. he thought...well, yes it does make sense and he had the purity of intention to get married anyways so why put the family thru more inconvenience who had done great favours by bringing him over to australia, paying his fair and now wedding...so he said OK.
saturday was a big day in his life. he was happpy but very lonely...he was all by himself. no friends, no family members...just himself. he had to take care of himself. it was the day he had been waiting for 7 months and thats how long it took for him to go thru the visa processing.
to be continued:
This happy day was marked by lonliness and worries and the fear of the unknown. should they have travelled to their native country with the girl and got married there so the boys family could attend the wedding. what do you ***think?*