A woman is a horse

Okay, call me whatever for bashing desis but this is the truth, I’ve been hearing things like that since the age of 5 on PTV dramas, “aurat ghori hai, uss ko lagam (reigns) daal do and then you can control her”.

What’s the origin of such thinking? And do people still believe in it?

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Yes they do. The Origin is our "Desi" Culture. I've said it earlier and I will say it again that its actually the weakness of the woman which leads to her being treated/controlled in this way.

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Im pretty sure they still do. I don't know where it came from but it has a lot to do with the woman allowing herself to be controlled.

If she wants, she can be in charge. But our girls are rarely raised that way.

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I never heard this, may be i havent watched much ptv.

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Must be babar ghori who started that

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There used to be only one channel (PTV) and it used to broadcast only one drama a day from 8:00 to 9:00... don't know where you spent your childhood man. I'm assuming you're in your mid to late 20s.

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i never heard that too for woman....
i always heard *mard nahata dhoota ghora hai ....*means no matter whatever he do, at the end of the day it is ALWAYS woman's fault

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^Okay I have never heard that before. Though I keep hearing ‘mard aur ghora kabhi boorha nahin hota’:hoonh:

About the dialogue about women, I have heard and read it plenty of times! It’s all about controlling women, and most of the times, it’s other women suggesting it to their son/brother/whoever. Mein ne tou yehi parha hai.

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Sarah Jessica Parker is a horse.

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:(

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.. and the women who stand for themselves & dont allow to be controlled by husbands are considered “bud ikhlaq” and “bud tameez” by the hubbies or in laws :hoonh:

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Only if wish could be horses and putting lagam on women was that easy. Hai hai.. :(

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that’s mard aur sher kabhi boorah nahi hota…men would never equate themselves with horses. :frowning:

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I have only listened that Mard aur Ghoora (horse) kabhi borhay naheen hotay :sunnyboy:

When I read that I thought

Yee hawwww!

Haha sowee - but what backward thinking it's still very visible even in the UK sometimes my parents come out with ridiculously backward things - which leads to endless debates. Where we agree to disagree - times are a-changing. Thank god education. This is what are nation needs.

Change your thoughts and you will change your world.

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my ex MIL used to taunt my mother because she did not have a son by saying " mard to sada satta aur bata hota hai jab chahay doosri shaadi kar sakta hai woh kabhi boorha thori na hota hai " ......I know what Bata is ...I don't know what Sata is ?

I still remember the statement lol ! cuz she said it like 10 times or over to my mom on different ocassions

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sata bata :mad:

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what does it mean? :konfused:

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^I don’t know that’s why :mad:

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Dont know about this 'ghori' saying but have heard

jithey de khoti, uthey aan khaloti :)