Well I have this question. I am sure many so you will attack me. It’s just one of the dirtiest thought which I wanted share without getting negative comments. I myself are well aware about all the side effects, I am 26 years old, happily married from last 3 years now. Mash Allah. A female friend of mine whom I was really close in my school life visited me after decades. I was in touch her regularly in between through emails & Chats. I don’t know why I have developed unadulterated nature toward her. Make me feel sexually charged. I loved her before but that love never meant to be sexually attracted.
I think a primarily normal person can have a love affair with someone of the same sex, and it does happen. It all boils down to chemistry, and when you have chemistry and in one split moment, you decide to act on that feeling, something will happen, whether you plan for it or not.
I am not a lesbian and never ever felt this way before. I have not at all done anything so far. But the feeling is killing me inside. I am absolutely very satisfied and happy with my Husband.
Now the question. How should I avoid this thought? I am Muslim and know very well this is something I should not at all think about .Its Haram. Against mankind, against my religion.
Has anyone ever felt this way? I mean a normal person, who knows this is a biggest Sin, Can develop such wretched feeling? I am shammed of myself.
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Alright Dirty Thought..<< o dude..that doesn't sound right to begin with. What do you like about her yo?. Do you girls hang out often??
I don’t know what do I like in her. I can’t express my feelings. But I know it’s something strong enough. Something I have never felt before for anyone. I even shared this with my husband, Since I have a very friendly relationship with him, And he was like laughing and condoling me. He took that all in fun.
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I don’t know what do I like in her. I can’t express my feelings. But I know it’s something strong enough. Something I have never felt before for anyone. I even shared this with my husband, Since I have a very friendly relationship with him,** And he was like laughing and condoling me. He took that all in fun. **
But I was somewhere really serious inside. :-) :p
I met her after 6 long years.
Ab aadmi khush ho hee ga, abhi Eid aai nahi aur tofay pehlay hee mil rahe hain
Re: A Weird Thought – Attraction toward Same Sex!!!
Well I have this question. I am sure many so you will attack me. It’s just one of the dirtiest thought which I wanted share without getting negative comments. I myself are well aware about all the side effects, I am 26 years old, happily married from last 3 years now. Mash Allah. A female friend of mine whom I was really close in my school life visited me after decades. I was in touch her regularly in between through emails & Chats. I don’t know why I have developed unadulterated nature toward her. Make me feel sexually charged. I loved her before but that love never meant to be sexually attracted.
I think a primarily normal person can have a love affair with someone of the same sex, and it does happen. It all boils down to chemistry, and when you have chemistry and in one split moment, you decide to act on that feeling, something will happen, whether you plan for it or not.
I am not a lesbian and never ever felt this way before. I have not at all done anything so far. But the feeling is killing me inside. I am absolutely very satisfied and happy with my Husband.
Now the question. How should I avoid this thought? I am Muslim and know very well this is something I should not at all think about .Its Haram. Against mankind, against my religion.
Has anyone ever felt this way? I mean a normal person, who knows this is a biggest Sin, Can develop such wretched feeling? I am shammed of myself.
dude.... first give it a dry run.. try you "changed personality" some where else with some one else.
Once you are sure that you are changed, only then approach your friend in that manner.
Re: A Weird Thought – Attraction toward Same Sex!!!
Same sex attraction is a normal thing for many people.
Alfred C. Kinsey conducted research on human sexuality and published his findings in *Sexual Behavior in the Human Male * and *Sexual Behavior in the Human Female *. Kinsey ranked his findings on a seven-point scale with exclusive heterosexuality at zero and exclusive homosexuality at six. Many are at zero (exclusively heterosexual) and few were at six (exclusively homosexual) but there was a large population who fall in between niether black or white but have feelings for both sex.
Because of open attitudes towards sexuality you find many young kids experimenting with both sexes.
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Ya know..not only awaislovely..i say..GS ladies..who openly express love to their female counterparts and often mention of marrying them as well..so i am not surprised yo.
