Whoever was around when it needed doing, did the job. However, it kind of developed into a role for Mr Halwa, who now empties the bin as a matter of course. When it comes to moving the wheelie bin out in time for weekly collection, usually our neighbour does both his and ours... Cos we have nice neighbours.
I think women are capable of doing the job, but it suits a man better... :p
Be mindful of your nice neighbor he/she is up to something.
If you and your husbands where 80 year old geezers I would accept that neighbor to be a nice neighbor.:p
And in answer to your question. Till your kids are little ones live in an apartment so that you do not have to worry about who takes out the trash. Once they are old enough to do that job then move to a house and they will do it for you if they want their weekly allowance.