When there is a situation when they need to man up, they force their begums to face the tantrums/fight the war instead of them taking a stand. If you haven’t seen a similar situation , pay a little attention now and you will find one or two examples.
one eg: FIL finds something wrong in his DIL but he tells his wife to be the bad guy in any given situation and DIL goes to random forums and trashes her MIL not understanding that its actually FIL who has issues with her.
Now i wonder why that is too?