Re: A typcial paki problem again..?
Thanks for making me more confused 
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This my friend, is the most complex relational database model I have ever seen 
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Erm say whaaaaaaaaat?
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Ahhh. Saray jaha-n ka dard hamaray jighar mein hay :)
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What is there to get touchy about Nadz? Obviously there is something fishy about this situation. Either the girl was pulling your leg, or she's planning something weird without her parents' knowledge that is why your sister didn't know and neither did her dad. That is why her dad called up to scold you about it and say you are spreading malicious rumors. And it is a dangerous thing to say about a girl that she is getting Nikaah'ed when she isn't. It can put a stop to other people approaching the family for rishtas for the girl. I don't think the dad is to blame here. I think there is something going on with this cousin, or she was lying to you. Either way, you should steer clear of family gossip/news. Listen but do not forward anything you hear to anyone. Do not be a cog in the gossip machine. Because noone is going to look at your intentions when something backfires like it did here. These are sensitive issues and most reactions are emotional rather than logical. For your own sake sweety, do not indulge in any family gossip or news. Do not forward it, do not act like you know anything. There is great wisdom in remaining silent.
Hope you pay heed to this advise in future and that it helps you.
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A typical bitter thread again.After going through all her threads in life1 i think she is a troll :D
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i actually feel sorry for you on this one nadz.
the dynamics of the entwined relations b/w families here have their own consequences and at the same time bring people closer too...where there's closeness ...there's naturally some interference. trust me - Pakistan isn't bad ..the people aren't mean ,they just care too much for our comfort. when the time comes ..even neighbours turn up to help you ..and this is something you won't find everywhere else
settling down would obviously take time ..and with you being preg and taking care of a 9 month old baby - it sure makes things harder.
but just don't dwell on the negatives..learn to ignore all the jibes and snide remarks of various ppl around. they are not important. and also ignore if your MIL scolds you .. IA things would get better when you once get hang of how things are done there..
Sigh I miss Pak alot :(
BTW..do you have hired domestic help at your place?
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Yep. Making a fuss out of any incident is a typical Pakistani problem. Writing about it on internet is a recent phenomenon.
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jesus christ